{"id":60755,"date":"2022-08-01T09:54:57","date_gmt":"2022-08-01T02:54:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/asprou.com\/?p=60755"},"modified":"2022-08-01T10:46:22","modified_gmt":"2022-08-01T03:46:22","slug":"cha-me-sinh-con-ai-sinh-tinh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/asprou.com\/vien-khoa-hoc-giao-duc\/cha-me-sinh-con-ai-sinh-tinh\/","title":{"rendered":"Cha m\u1eb9 sinh con, ai sinh t\u00ednh?"},"content":{"rendered":"
Tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e0n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i nh\u01b0 thai gi\u00e1o, d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nhi, sinh con ra v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i con l\u00e0m sao cho h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi khoa h\u1ecdc. Th\u00ed d\u1ee5, cho con b\u00fa m\u1ea5y l\u1ea7n trong ng\u00e0y, s\u1eefa m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t hay kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, thay t\u00e3 l\u00f3t, v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e0m sao cho con ch\u00f3ng l\u1edbn, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, v\u00e0 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh. Nh\u01b0ng \u00edt th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00e2m l\u00fd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u01a1i c\u00e1c em. H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1, tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1edbn l\u00ean, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n theo m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, tr\u00ed \u00f3c, m\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n
Trong v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u00ecnh d\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u bao g\u1ed3m kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ea5t t\u00e2m l\u00fd, r\u1ea5t hay v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. Th\u00ed d\u1ee5, trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, m\u1ed7i khi ng\u1ee5 \u00fd so s\u00e1nh con c\u00e1i gi\u1ed1ng cha ho\u1eb7c m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00ed: \u201cCha n\u00e0o con n\u1ea5y.\u201d Ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201cLike father like son.\u201d \u201cLike mother like daughter.\u201d Ho\u1eb7c khi mu\u1ed1n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t, nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i g\u1eb7t h\u00e1i \u0111em l\u1ea1i vinh d\u1ef1 cho cha m\u1eb9, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1ea3o: \u201cH\u1ed5 ph\u1ee5 sinh h\u1ed5 t\u1eed.\u201d Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cho cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00e1t l\u00f2ng, h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i th\u00ec sao? C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i l\u00e0m cho cha m\u1eb9 \u0103n kh\u00f4ng ngon, ng\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng y\u00ean, ph\u1ea3i b\u00e1n nh\u00e0, b\u00e1n \u0111\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1y ch\u1eefa, lo l\u00f3t cho ch\u00fang tr\u00e1nh ng\u1ed3i t\u00f9 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m ph\u1ea1m ph\u00e1p, v\u00ec c\u1edd b\u1ea1c, ma t\u00fay, v\u00e0 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i h\u01b0, t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt s\u1ef1 phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n \u0111ang x\u00e9t n\u00e1t tim can, ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng cha m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 an \u1ee7i: \u201cCha m\u1eb9 sinh con, tr\u1eddi sinh t\u00ednh.\u201d<\/p>\n
C\u00f2n trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u0103n ngay, \u1edf l\u00e0nh, l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i v\u1eabn h\u01b0 th\u00e2n m\u1ea5t n\u1ebft, v\u1eabn \u0111em l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i, bu\u1ed3n kh\u1ed5, b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh cho cha m\u1eb9 th\u00ec sao? \u00d4ng tr\u1eddi c\u00f3 sinh ra c\u00e1i \u201ct\u00ednh\u201d c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? Tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng. Trong ni\u1ec1m tin d\u00e2n gian, \u00d4ng Tr\u1eddi v\u1eabn l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea5ng thi\u1ec7n h\u1ea3o, t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i, n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ra c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u, t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, ho\u1eb7c khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb sau n\u00e0y l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea1o, thi\u1ebfu gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, ho\u1eb7c \u0111i v\u00e0o con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 v\u00f4 can, ho\u1eb7c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m? Ti\u1ebfp theo \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a \u0111\u00e3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m trong \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, t\u1ea1m g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c nh\u00e2n gian.<\/p>\n
\u201cRau n\u00e0o s\u00e2u n\u1ea5y\u201d<\/span>: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a khi n\u00f3i c\u00e2u: \u201cRau n\u00e0o s\u00e2u n\u1ea5y,\u201d m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u00e1m ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean quan huy\u1ebft th\u1ed1ng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u theo kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh khoa h\u1ecdc, l\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 di truy\u1ec1n. Theo \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb sinh ra th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 di truy\u1ec1n v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, t\u00e2m l\u00fd, v\u00e0 tr\u00ed kh\u00f4n ngoan c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1edd v\u00e0o gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, trong \u0111\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9, ph\u1ee5 huynh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1eef nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu v\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c, t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, v\u00e0 tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi di truy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng theo c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u th\u00ec di truy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 do ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 mang hai X chromosome, trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 duy nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t X chromosome. Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha kh\u00f4ng vui. B\u00f9 l\u1ea1i \u00f4ng tr\u1eddi l\u1ea1i cho h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c sinh con trai hay con g\u00e1i.<\/p>\n Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng di truy\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan \u2013 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 40-60% tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb di truy\u1ec1n, c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c \u1edf m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng. [1]<\/p>\n \u201cGieo g\u00ec g\u1eb7t n\u1ea5y\u201d<\/span>: N\u1ebfu tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi con kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi di truy\u1ec1n t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha, th\u00ec nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, v\u00ec vai tr\u00f2 v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nh\u1eadu nh\u1eb9t, say s\u01b0a, b\u00e0i b\u1ea1c, ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi con l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng, l\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7n, c\u00f3 t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc ch\u1eedi th\u1ec1, v\u0103ng t\u1ee5c t\u1eeb trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00fang b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng n\u1ea3y sinh t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. V\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 b\u1eeba b\u00e3i, l\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0129nh, keo ki\u1ec7t, chanh chua, b\u1ed1p ch\u00e1t v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng, ghen t\u1ef5, c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i sau n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n Trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc tuy kh\u00f3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u: \u201cGi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb 20 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi\u201d. T\u1ea1i sao? \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con m\u00ecnh khi ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra.<\/p>\n \u201cD\u1ea1y con t\u1eeb thu\u1edf l\u00ean ba\u201d:<\/span>\u00a0\u00a0Kinh nghi\u1ec7m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a, n\u1ebfu \u0111em v\u00e0o \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c th\u1eddi nay th\u00ec r\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p th\u1eddi, v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00fang. Theo c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, th\u1eddi gian t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 khi n\u00f3 l\u00ean ba. \u1ede th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y tr\u00ed \u00f3c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc m\u00e1y ghi \u00e2m c\u1ef1c t\u1ed1t, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ghi l\u1ea1i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang th\u1ea5y, ch\u00fang nghe t\u1eeb chung quanh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u00e1c em b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u: Kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Khi l\u00ean 3, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 n\u00f3i n\u0103ng, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi khi\u1ebfn b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ee1 ng\u00e0ng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd suy ngh\u0129, th\u00ec h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 nghe, \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu th\u1eddi gian t\u1eeb l\u00fac \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb sinh ra \u0111\u1ebfn khi l\u00ean ba l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian ch\u00fang quan s\u00e1t, ghi nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, s\u1ef1 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, th\u00ec l\u00fac n\u00e0y khi l\u00ean ba c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian ch\u00fang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 cho ch\u00fang. Cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eebng t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, c\u00e3i v\u00e3, ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i n\u0103ng b\u1eeba b\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con c\u00e1i \u1edf tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y m\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n \u201cB\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng vin c\u1ea3 g\u1eaby c\u00e0nh\u201d<\/span>: Kinh nghi\u1ec7m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u00e0y \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng v\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf trong vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 ch\u0103m m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y c\u1ea3nh. N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n u\u1ed1n c\u00e2y ph\u1ea3i u\u1ed1n khi c\u00f2n m\u1ec1m, c\u00f2n non. Khi c\u00e2y ho\u1eb7c c\u00e0nh \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn, \u0111\u00e3 \u01b0\u01a1n xa, v\u01b0\u01a1n cao m\u00e0 u\u1ed1n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd b\u1ecb g\u1eaby. Trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian c\u00e2y non c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n 7 tu\u1ed5i, em b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, v\u00e0 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i r\u1ea5t chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u01b0a h\u1ee9a m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, ho\u1eb7c n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 d\u00f9ng roi v\u1ecdt m\u00e0 \u00e1p ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd cho cha m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i t\u00e0i n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n 10 tu\u1ed5i, em b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vu\u1ed1t ve, \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, \u00f4m \u1ea5p n\u1eefa. Ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn ho\u1eb7c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1edbn. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi c\u00e1 t\u00ednh v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. C\u00e0nh c\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u01b0\u01a1n d\u00e0i v\u00e0 c\u1ee9ng c\u00e1p. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m, ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi c\u00f2n b\u00e9 s\u1ebd t\u1eeb t\u1eeb th\u00e0nh t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1 t\u00ednh. Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0 b\u1ecf nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian.<\/p>\n 13 tu\u1ed5i, tu\u1ed5i b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o th\u1eddi gian n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u1ea1nh. Th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 mu\u1ed1n th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c cha m\u1eb9, th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. L\u00fac n\u00e0y cha m\u1eb9, ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n d\u00f9ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u1eedi m\u1eafng, \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f2n, la l\u1ed1i, ngay c\u1ea3 kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 do g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m quan tr\u1ecdng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi c\u00e1i t\u00f4i v\u00e0 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u00e0nh h\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n \u201cG\u00e1i 17 b\u1ebb g\u1eaby s\u1eebng tr\u00e2u\u201d<\/span>: Th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00e0nh c\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng u\u1ed1n, v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng b\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m v\u01b0\u1eddn \u2013 cha m\u1eb9 hay ph\u1ee5 huynh \u2013 m\u1ea1nh tay ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u1eaby c\u00e0nh c\u00e2y.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 hay ph\u1ee5 huynh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng, n\u00f3i n\u0103ng, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh. N\u1ebfu b\u00ecnh t\u00e2m, cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, s\u1ebd nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfng m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra cung c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ebb g\u1eaby s\u1eebng tr\u00e2u c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u00fang c\u00f2n \u1edf chung m\u1ed9t m\u00e1i nh\u00e0, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129, v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac n\u00e0y m\u1edbi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, m\u1edbi la m\u1eafng, m\u1edbi kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, m\u1edbi than th\u1edf th\u00ec e l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed9n.<\/p>\n Nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 khi con c\u00e1i \u1edf tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng t\u1ec7 n\u1ea1n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u, bia, x\u00e8 ke, ma t\u00fay, c\u1edd b\u1ea1c, b\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea3ng, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecf \u0111\u1ea1o. Kh\u00f4ng cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra cho con c\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 do nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c khi con c\u00e1i c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, c\u1ed9ng th\u00eam nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 c\u00e1c ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n \u201cTam th\u1eadp nhi l\u1eadp\u201d<\/span>: V\u1ec1 h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e0, nh\u01b0ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00e0nh ri\u00eang cho vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y. B\u00e0n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd, kinh nghi\u1ec7m ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cTam th\u1eadp nhi l\u1eadp\u201d. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u1edf tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee7. V\u00e0 theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd, c\u00e1c t\u00ednh n\u1ebft, b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh n\u1ebfp.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi con \u1edf v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebfn 30 tu\u1ed5i? X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u00f4m nay, con c\u00e1i ch\u1ec9 mong sao \u0111\u1ebfn 18 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 ra \u1edf ri\u00eang, t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang t\u01b0. Do \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c g\u00ec, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, cha m\u1eb9 hay ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 18 n\u0103m \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u0103m con c\u00e1i c\u00f2n \u1edf v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c g\u1ea7n g\u0169i th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, c\u0169ng theo kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ti\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n, th\u00ec tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1, \u201cNh\u00e2n chi s\u01a1, t\u00ednh b\u1ea3n thi\u1ec7n.\u201d Tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean, ho\u1eb7c mu\u1ed9n l\u1eafm b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean, l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n cho vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh v\u00e0 t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t, trong th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n trong tr\u1eafng, ng\u00e2y th\u01a1, v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn. Ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0y v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 kh\u1ecfi t\u1ea7m tay, r\u1ed3i nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba cho \u00d4ng tr\u1eddi!<\/p>\n Ti\u1ebfn s\u1ef9 T\u00e2m L\u00fd Tr\u1ea7n M\u1ef9 Duy\u1ec7t<\/span><\/p>\n
\n\u2013 T\u00f2 m\u00f2, kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 qua s\u00e1ch v\u1edf.
\n\u2013 Th\u00edch nghe \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch.
\n\u2013 K\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u truy\u1ec7n quen thu\u1ed9c.
\n\u2013 H\u00e1t m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u00e1t b\u1eb1ng ch\u1eef c\u00e1i.
\n\u2013 L\u00e0m nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u nh\u01b0 ch\u1eef vi\u1ebft.
\n\u2013 Nh\u1eadn ra ch\u1eef c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a t\u00ean m\u00ecnh.
\n\u2013 Bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 vi\u1ebft th\u00ec kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi v\u1ebd.
\n\u2013 B\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ecdc to ti\u1ebfng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch. [2]<\/p>\n